Love Comes Out in Our Words

I get these devotionals from a pastor in the Houston area (thank you Meredith!) and they are always so wonderful. I don't like to sign up for lots of long e-devotions that I'm not going to make time for - have done this before. But these are short and so poignant:

Loving Your Neighbor

Love your neighbor as yourself.
Matthew 22:39


What does it mean to love your neighbor? What does love look like in our daily lives?

Love is radically other-centered. It is a most unusual preoccupation with other people and their needs, instead of being preoccupied with yourself and your needs.

Love listens. You listen because you care. You listen because you really want to understand. When someone is listened to, and they feel understood and cared for, well that is just about the most powerful thing on earth. Love listens.

Love serves. Love is always asking, “How can I serve him? How can I help her? What needs does he have? Does God want to use me in her life?” Love is always looking to serve. Love is forever grabbing a towel and a basin, and washing feet. Love serves.

Love is kind and gentle. Love comes out in our words. It comes out in our voice. There is a gentleness, a kindness, a patience, a tenderness. Our words are not harsh and abrasive. They are not demanding and impatient. They are not sharp and strident. Love is kind and gentle.

This is love. This is how to love your neighbor. It is simple though it is not easy. God can give you grace. Fill up with his love, and then let it spill over.

This hit me like a ton of bricks as I read this after an afternoon/evening of being impatient and frustrated with my kiddos. Oh, is it hard to maintain the patience! I take that back - in my own strength it's hard, but when I've been in prayer and listening to the Spirit's leading His patience flows out. Whew! Lord help me - my words are so often "harsh and abrasive, demanding and impatient, sharp and strident" with my kids, especially the strong-willed one. :) Amazing that God led me to this this evening - his grace gently rebukes and corrects - at the perfect time. Thank you Jesus. Also amazing that God loves us with this kind of patience too. wow. Hope this encourages you too...

(These Monday, Wednesday and Friday devotional e-mails are written by Jeff Wells, Senior Pastor at WoodsEdge Community Church. To hear our weekly messages or to find out more about WoodsEdge please go to www.woodsedge.org.

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New Do

Bold move! Don't think my hair has ever been this short, especially in the back. But my hairdresser did a great job. (She's wonderful if you need a good one!!) Please excuse the lovely zinger of a zit on my face...;) I took these shots right after I got home so I could look back if I couldn't remember how she did it. It's actually not that hard to fix. I just have a nub of a pony tail, which is how I wear it 80% of the time! Anyway...

Who Needs a Living Room When You Can Have a Basketball Court?!?

Here are shots of our living room renovation. We had that ugly, broken tile in our living room for all SIX years we've lived here and now we decide to make it look nice for the next people who live here! Maybe our next home will have had some nice renovators too??? Oh well... It's definitely made a huge improvement on the first and most important room of the house.

Andy moving out the furniture he broke it and got it up himself with this long 16 pound scraper thingbut the REALLY huge mess was getting the thin set mortar stuff off the floor. he had this loud grinding tool that he used on the whole floor. I can't even begin to describe how much dust it produced throughout our house (even though we sealed the rest of the house off with plastic). It was just billowing out the windows. As Andy was working he couldn't see the ground! We've got most of it cleaned up finally...

We decided on laminate wood! Great deal at a seconds and surplus place...

Jake testing it out - great sliding action!

The next night after the laminate wood was complete, Andy commented on how much it looked like a basketball court. He pulled the goal in from the backyard and they played for a while.

Maybe we'll just leave the furniture in the garage and keep our half court!

I LOVE to see comments!

My cousin-in-law (right, Tricia?) Tricia posted this button and I like it too. If you visit my site, let me know! It's fun seeing who's out there. In case you're not sure how, you just click at the bottom of the post where it says how many comments there are: "163 comments." A-hem. Type in a 'hello' and your name and email - don't even think you have to have a google account. Not sure. And only your name will appear with your comment.

Thanks and love!

Renovation, etc.

My to-do list is about a mile long, and blogging is toward the bottom. I know you've all been at the edge of your seats! ;)

We had a wonderful Christmas - 4 different stops. We're drowning in Transformers, Star Wars characters and various other boy stuff. Actually, we made giant sweeps in both boys' rooms before opening new packages to get rid of old. (garage sale, donate, etc.) So nice to spend time with family and the boys are at a great age to enjoy everything.

And as I type, Andy is sweeping up inches of dust from our living room floor. In a few hours yesterday he scraped off all the tile (no machines - just his back!). Today he spent ALL day sanding down the thinset mortar left from the tile so we can put carpet down eventually. He carefully covered all the doorways and vents with plastic to contain most of the dust, but it amazingly got EVERYWHERE. This fine, white dust has permeated just about every room but the garage. So somewhere on my to-do list once this project is done, is a major house cleaning. All of our living room furniture is piled in the garage. And because of the plastic covering, we have to go outside to get to the kitchen, avoiding the living room. Pretty chaotic, but I'm ever-so thankful for HANDY ANDY!

Still adjusting to the new camera, but have lots of shots to post...just not yet.

oh yeah, Happy New Year!

Also, has anyone seen the movie Australia? I REALLY liked it...